Wednesday, December 3, 2008

The power of your eye. Attract and Apporach.

Today I’m going to talk about eye contact but before I start of, here’s a video to give you a better picture what I’m going to talk about.



As the video mentioned, eye contact is an important thing to have when you want to pick up girls.

When I mention eye contact, I’m not referring to that eye contact you give when you look at someone lustfully. I’m referring to those that are polite and sweet. What I’m pointing out here is ‘SMILE’ with your eyes.

Make that person you are exchanging eye contact with comfortable instead of feeling intimidated. Make her feel important instead of making her feel as though she was just any other girl.

The first few things a lady does when she enters a club or room will be to scan through the room consciously or subconsciously. But either way, this means something, she’s using her eyes. Which means? If you manage to catch her by using eye contact when she’s scanning her room, you’ve just got her attracted to you and that makes things easier.

But what happens if you fail to do so? Or what if you were the one who enters the room and saw a lady? Well, it’s the same thing too, eye contact. There’s always another chance to make eye contact with that lady however, I’m telling you never let it drag because once you do so, you probably won’t approach her later thinking to yourself, she’s going to leave soon, its useless or just giving yourself some lame excuses so you don’t have to exchange eye contact with her.

The whole point is to learn to ‘SMILE’ with your eyes and learn to exchange proper eye contact. And keep this in mind, always, never ever approach a girl when she’s not even attracted to you. At the very least, exchange some eye contacts.

But before I end of, remember on my previous post, I mentioned that for the next 3 days, do approach 4-5 strangers and open small talks with them? Well, if you have done so then well done but either way, from now till 3 days later, I want you to approach 4-5 strangers again and open small talks but this time with eye contact. Treat it as, you’re giving them your fullest attention and respect. To ensure that you really are on track when exchanging eye contact, I want you to also write down the color of person’s eye.


That's all for today, till tomorrow, bye!

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